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Shlach- Try Insulting your Boss

Have you ever tried insulting your boss?

I'm not suggesting you try it :)

Leaders often 'run' for the office and do all in their power to defend and protect their position. Without it, they sense they will be smaller or less. 

The Torah's approach to leadership turns this conventional model on its head.

At the end of this week's Torah portion, Shlach, a rebellion erupted against the role of spiritual leaders like Moses and The High Priest. The claim seemed rather pious: Imagine you have a synagogue filled with Torah scrolls; wouldn't it be pointless and unnecessary to affix a Mezuzah, containing a meager two paragraphs from the Torah, on its doorpost? So if everyone in the community has a soul and is inherently connected with G-d, why the need for a spiritual leader?

But the argument was flawed. (Just check the doorposts of the synagogue on your next visit:)) Why? Because though a Torah scroll is sacred, it remains tucked away in the ark and not accessible or relatable. The Mezuzah has a critical role then, of making Jewish spirituality alive, as people encounter and engage with it every time they come and go.

This is exactly the role of a Jewish spiritual leader. Leaders are not more privileged than regular people. Actually, ordinary Jews are as sacred as Torah scrolls! But a good Jewish leader serves his people by cultivating the inherent power and infinite goodness we all already possess. So we all recognize we are like Torah scrolls!

Behaaloscha- Unity after a Crisis

In a marriage, man and woman become one. The problems begin when they try to figure out which one.

The extraordinary unity we experienced as a result of the global crisis these past few months was awe-inspiring. People put personal interests aside to help and be there for others. But as our 'regular' life begins to emerge, we seem to be reverting back to disunity, resuming to our default, self-oriented behavior patterns.

How do we bottle this extraordinary unifying force and carry it into ordinary life?

The Temple's Menorah (discussed in this week's Torah portion) may shed some light on what it means to go about everyday life with a sense of unity. Two unique conditions were to be met in the construction and kindling of the Menorah: 1) The entire Menorah was carved out of one single chunk of gold (not welded parts). 2) The wicks and flames on the right and left branches were to lean toward the center.

When confronting a crisis, we draw energy from deep within, and we sense how at our core we are truly one, carved from the same stuff by our creator. That's powerful, but not enough.

It's when we emerge from that crisis, carrying our own distinctive 'torch', following our own unique path, reflecting our personality, talent, and strength. That's when we are reminded by the Menorah, that precisely now it's most critical to see ourselves as one part of a larger, diverse picture.

The distinct voices and personalities of diverse people join together to make one wholesome Menorah!

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